I've worked in the Recreation field for many years. I've been in college athletics, worked in the Recreational Sports division at a big University, and now work in the Parks & Recreation field. These are all fields where you would assume that most people who work in these fields are active. This assumption is wrong. Every job I've been at I've always assumed I've have co-workers to work out with, chat about running with in the break room, or just who share my passion for fitness. And, I always end up being let down as this is typically not the case.
It always amazes me when people ask me why I run. My coworkers - and even some friends and family members - don’t completely understand it. “Why do you run so much?” or “It’s boring … how can you stand to do that every day?” Or, my personal favorite, “Why do you run? I don’t get it.” Honestly, I'd like to answer with questions such as "why do you watch t.v.?" or similar questions.
I never know how to answer when people ask me these things, because, if you have to ask that question of a runner, then you really won’t understand the answer that comes with it. It’s not to say anyone is inferior if they aren’t a runner or don't understand the passion of running. Not everyone can do it or even gets it, and that makes it unique. Running is very personal, yet it can be social, it’s stress relieving, and can be competitive when desired. It can encompass the being of who we are as people, and it can run through the fabric of our entire lives. But explaining why we run can be complicated. And how many of us really know why we run in the first place?
My colleagues know I'm a bit different. I spend my lunch hour working out as opposed to eating out. I get up at 4:45 am to workout before work. I don't often partake in the morning donut/cookie/cupcake break. I don't partake in the afternoon one either. During triathlon season, I often arrive to work bike in tow so that I can head straight to ride after work. I've been known to take vacation days to train. I don't talk about my training or races that I do at work unless asked, however I do have my races medal displayed in my office at work (it's either there or my garage so I decided to make use of them) so they occasionally prompt an inquiry.
I'm always happy to talk to anyone who asks about running in hopes of sharing my passion for the sport with them. However, what bothers me - and it has for years - is the stereotypes associated with runners by those who do not exercise. Women are the worst offenders. I'm sorry, but women can be very caddy and hurtful. I don't know how many times I've heard a snide comment thrown my way, one that of course is completely off base. It seems to get worse during the holidays - the more cookies I turn down, the more skinny bitch hate glances I receive.
I've come to realize that the average person vastly misunderstands runners as a whole, and our "lifestyle", so to speak. For example, a couple of months ago I was having some car issues, and Dan was out of town so I needed a way to get home. Someone said "why don't you run home?" I thought to myself, what a silly question. It's 5pm, I'm wearing jeans and sandals, and she thinks that I am going to run home? But it made me realize how much people don't really get it (at all). It's not like we, as runners, just run from place to place for the heck of it or because we have no other way to get somewhere. I compete in a sport, and I train for that sport, by running. It is not my mode of transportation.
So - just to clear a few other stereotypes/misconceptions up -
1. All runners are "health freaks" who are obsessed with a healthy lifestyle.
False. Actually, I would bet most people would be a) shocked by the amount of food I eat, and b) the amount of unhealthy food I eat (Mexican food, pizza, cheese, ice cream all favorites eaten often). You know what? I actually don't like cookies. So, when you offer them to me and I don't take them that's the reason. It bugs me when people come down the hall at work offering up food to everyone but say to me "I won't even offer you because I know you won't eat it." Hey now. That's not always the case, but thanks.
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| This was my meal 2 days before Ironman CDA. And, yes, the beer is mine. |
2. People think that because I'm thin I don't eat enough.
False. See above. Or just ask my husband. True story: at a retirement function a few months ago, a few of us were standing around having a conversation. A co-worker says: "I hope they have some food because I'm really hungry.
I pulled an Erin at lunch." Sayyy what???? She continued "Yeah, I only had some yogurt" followed up my "Do you ever eat. Because you always work out at lunch so I figured you skip lunch." Yes, I eat lunch. And two breakfasts, dinner, desert and snacks throughout the day if you must know.
3. Non-runners assume I can eat whatever I want without gaining a pound.
False. I actually gain weight pretty easily. But, this is one stereotype I wish were true.
4. That we (runners) only think about running and nothing else. (Ok, well maybe someof us are a tad obsessed, but we care about other sports and stuff too). I actually do have other interests thankyouverymuch, and yes, I would like to be included in invitations to do fun things.
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| Non-running run at a baseball game! |
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| 6th Street in Austin |
5. Only really fast people enter races and that anyone who races is trying to win.
False. I had a conversation a few weeks ago with a co-worker who wants to start running more. I was super excited and told them about an upcoming local 5k, and their response was "Oh no. I could never do something like that. I'm not on your level." My response: I know that runners of all speeds and abilities that race, and that most of them are out there competing only against themselves and the clock.
6. Any race is called a "marathon."
Nope. There is a big difference between the 5k I just ran and the marathon I just ran. And for the record, the correct marathon distance is 26.2 miles.
That is all.